Cute Strap-Ons for Wearable Fun With Your Partner

Whether you’re new to strap-ons or they’re a tried and true favorite, selecting the perfect strap-on for you and your partner’s needs isn’t as easy as grabbing the first one you see. Okay, fine — technically, it is that easy, but where’s the fun in that?

If you’re looking for some cute strap-ons, look no further.

There are many reasons to explore the idea of a strap-on, all of which are valid! Strap-on dildos can be gender-validating to individuals who experience dysphoria. They can help you explore a new dynamic with your partner. 

They can help you fulfill a fantasy that isn’t possible with your body otherwise. They can also just be something new to try in the bedroom to keep things fresh and fun — and keeping the sparks flying with your partner is always important; a fulfilling sex life can be good for your relationship and overall mental health.

So whatever the reason is, we’re glad you’re here! That’s the first thing you should know. The second thing is that strap-on devices aren’t one-size-fits-all. You’ll need to consider both your and your partner’s comfort levels. You may love the look of an extra-large toy, but if your partner is on the smaller side, it may not be the best fit for both of you.

Some people prefer realistic-looking toys, while others prefer fun colors and unique shapes designed to stimulate all of the best parts of your body. (And yes, it’s okay if you want to use a strap-on but would rather not use one that looks like a penis! It’s just down to preference).

You’ll also want to make sure your strap-on and harness are both well-made to avoid any injuries or infections — or just to avoid it wearing out if it gets a lot of use.

Lastly, it’s important to clean your sex toys regularly, especially if it’s something that spends any time inside of you or your partner, like a strap-on. Be sure to remove any batteries, check whether or not your toy is okay to be submerged in water, and stick to a fragrance-free, antibacterial soap to keep things clean without irritating your skin later.

You should also always check your individual toy’s instructions. Certain materials are more porous than others and should be handled differently to keep them in tip-top shape.

There’s truly no end to the options available to you when it comes to choosing a strap-on. Whether you want something realistic or something fun and festive, the world is your oyster — or in this case, your dildo.

To get you started, we’ve pulled some of our favorites to recommend.

If you’re of the “go big or go home” mentality, the Strap U Double G Deluxe Vibrating Strap-On is for you — but we don’t mean “big” like size, necessarily. We mean “big” as in, this strap-on has all the bells and whistles.

It’s ideal for both beginner users and seasoned strap-on connoisseurs because it’s so customizable. It includes two dildos, one with a narrower shaft and one with a thicker shaft, so if you’re not sure what size will best suit you or your partner, this is a great way to try the best of both worlds. 

The harness is adjustable, fits most sizes, and looks great on. It also has the added bonus of a bullet vibrator pocket in the front panel. So whether you’re wearing the strap-on or are on the receiving end, it will feel seriously good. Plus, it’s purple, which makes it as cute as it is sexy in our book.

If high-intensity sex is at the top of your list, the Dillio 7” Strap-On Suspender Harness Set is the girl for you. Not only is she pretty in pink, but it’s made with adjustable nylon shoulder straps that connect to the harness to ensure comfort and durability. 

You don’t want to be worrying about your strap-on staying in place during a crucial moment, so you can thrust-assured you’re safe with this one.

The phthalate-free 7” Dillio Slim that comes as the attachable dildo is perfectly designed to hit all the rights spots — but it’s also compatible with other Dillio devices, so there’s room to grow (or just to mix things up!) if you find yourself craving a little variety.

When looking for a cute strap-on for a sexy night in with your partner, look no further than the Strap U G Swirl G Spot Silicone Dildo, which comes in two sweet and sassy colors: purple and pink. There’s just something about these sweet, feminine-colored swirls that hit right when paired with a sweaty, satisfying session with your partner. These unique dildos are designed to stand out!

They’re made with a strong suction cup base, too, so not only can you affix them to your favorite strap-on harness, but you can lock them down for a solo session, too.

For any curvy ladies out there, this Plus Size Lace with Satin Strap on Harness in Red will help you achieve that oh-so-desirable middle ground between super hot and super cute. This corset-style harness is made with luxurious scarlet lace, so it’s equal parts functional toy and titillating lingerie.

It has adjustable straps and interchangeable o-rings, so it’s as customizable as you could want it to be. If you’re looking for an elegant strap-on that makes you feel feminine and totally in control of the situation — or if you want to see that in your partner — look no further than this incredibly cute strap-on option. 

And bonus: it has an enclosed channel for a bullet vibrator. 

While you can probably use almost any standard strap-on and have a great time with your partner, choosing the ideal toy for you is always the better bet! 

Luckily, there are tons of options out there for strap-ons that both fulfill your every need and fantasy and look super cute while doing it. 

Sources:

What’s the Best Way to Clean Sex Toys | Brown University

Sex Toys | Planned Parenthood

Sexuality and Mental Health: The Need for Mutual Development and Research | National Library of Medicine