When we say everyone, we mean everyone. Whether you have a clit or a partner with a clit, this little toy will take your sex life to the next level.
There’s a lot to be said for your reliable classics — the bullet vibrator, a good ol’ rabbit, whatever dildo strikes your fancy. But toys that can both vibrate and mimic the sensation of sucking your clit are the sort of thing dreams are made of.
Your dreams, specifically. The ones you’ll have when you fall into a deep, deep sleep after one of these vibrators makes your toes curl.
If you’re unsure what vibrating clit sucker toys are (beyond the obvious), how they work, or why you need to add one to your personal collection, we’re happy to fill you in.
Let’s Talk Vibrators
If you’re coming to us for advice, you’re probably generally familiar with sex toys. Vibrators are one of the most common types and can please anybody, no matter what you have between your legs.
They work like the name suggests: by vibrating gently (or not). You then place the vibrator directly against your clit, or any other area of your body that’s sensitive to touch.
The beauty of a vibrator is that it’s a simple thing that you can use however you want. There are two main categories of vibrators, and some straddle the two.
The first is external vibrators. These will be your go-to bullet vibrators. They’re often compact and discreet and used externally to pleasure you. They’re ideal not just for clit-havers, but for any part of your body.
Have sensitive nipples? Hello, bullet vibrator. Like the feeling of your partner touching your perineum? You’re going to love the feeling of a bullet.
The second is vibrators that can be inserted either vaginally or anally. Of course, nothing is stopping you from using these vibrators externally, too.
Something like the Bliss Liquid Silicone G Vibe is a great way to indulge. It features a curved tip to help hit your G-spot and has up to 10 powerful vibration speeds to help you control your pleasure.
Then some vibrators do both of these things at once. Something like the Voodoo Money Bunny has a classic shape you can figure out just by looking at it.
You insert the long end, while the shorter stem remains outside your body, perfectly contoured to your form, to help stimulate your clit while it buzzes against your g-spot internally. While vibrators are one of the most common sex toys for people of any gender, they can pose a problem if your clit is particularly sensitive because they provide direct stimulation.
This may be too intense if you’re particularly sensitive, which brings us to the star of the show.
How Do Clit Sucker Toys Work?
While different products may vary slightly in how exactly they work, generally, most clit suckers work by producing air pressure. This air pressure stimulates your clit without actually touching it, but it produces a sensation that feels a whole lot like having your clit sucked.
Let’s all take our hats off to the scientists who produced this little work of engineering genius. If your clit is particularly sensitive and you struggle with traditional vibrators, it’s worth giving this type of toy a try since it doesn’t make direct contact.
For instance, the Bloomgasm Rose Buzz uses a powerful stream of air that pulses out from the center of its flower to help stimulate your clit, and it is a great option if you struggle with direct stimulation.
That said, we understand if you’re reluctant to invest in a toy that stimulates your clitoris if you’ve had negative experiences with vibrators. But research shows that clitoral orgasms are better for your mental health and sexual satisfaction than other orgasms, so it’s worth looking for something that works for you.
Want a pro tip? These devices can work on your nipples, too.
Does It Feel Like Oral Sex?
This is probably most people’s first question. After all, the very name “clit sucker toy” implies that it will be similar to the experience of receiving oral sex.
If that’s your favorite part of sex, it’s a pretty appealing prospect, especially if you’re single or going through a bit of a dry spell and really miss that particular bit of human touch. The actual answer isn’t black and white.
Some people may find that clit sucker toys do indeed feel like receiving oral sex. Others may find it to be a totally different sensation.
It also may vary depending on the toy that you’re using. But in general, if you like oral sex, you’ll probably like a clit sucker toy.
What Does It Feel Like When You Put Them Together?
Here’s the rub, or lack thereof, with a straightforward clit sucker toy and traditional vibrators. These devices tend to stimulate just the tip of your clit, which feels really good, don’t get us wrong.
In fact, an actual person performing oral sex is most likely limited in this way, too. But these types of stimulation aren’t getting you to the stratosphere you could reach if more of the clitoral structure got some love.
By combining the clit-sucking action with some good vibrations, you can stimulate your clit and help to stimulate the rest of your most sensitive area, too. Something like the Fantasy for Her Vibrating Roto Suck-Her delivers on every front, sending pleasure through your entire system until you reach an orgasm so deep and complete, you’ll never look back.
The cup shape of this vibrating clit sucker toy can press fully against your vulva, giving you control over the sucking and vibrating functions individually. That way, you can choose which sensation feels best at different points in your session — maybe you start with suction and add the vibration as you get closer, or vice versa.
If you have a partner, we recommend turning over control to them if you think you can handle it.
What’s the Down Side?
There isn’t one!
The only thing we would note when it comes to vibrating clit sucker toys is that they tend to come in slightly more complex or unusual shapes than other types of vibrators, which best practices tell us makes them more challenging to clean.
It’s worth ensuring that your vibrator is made from non-porous, easily cleaned materials and thinking about how you will keep it sanitary before you commit. Especially given how often you want to use it after you first experience this type of toy.
Is This Going To Replace All of Your Other Toys?
The short answer is no, of course not! While vibrating clit sucker toys really are the next generation of sex toys that provide all of the delicious sensations you could possibly ask for, much like your sex life with a partner, variety is the spice of life.
So while you may find that the vibrating clit sucker toy becomes your go-to, sometimes you may want a different kind of sensation. Additionally, there’s no reason why you can’t mix and match.
Vibrating clit sucker toys can be pretty intense, so unless you’ve truly got nerves of steel, you probably won’t want to use it with another vibrator. But if you want to really blow your own mind or that of your partner, using a vibrating clit sucker toy at the same time as you use a basic — or Basix, as it were — dildo can tick every box you’ve ever imagined.
By combining the two, you can get dual-action clitoral stimulation alongside the G-spot stimulation of an internal device. After all, clitoral orgasms are powerful, but science tells us that clitoral and vaginal orgasms combined is the way to go.
Takeaway
Choosing the right vibrator to keep you satisfied can be challenging with such an embarrassment of riches on the market. Lucky for all of us, the number of options available for sex toys means it’s possible to find the exact thing that will get you there better than anything else.
If you or your partner enjoy clitoral stimulation most of all, a vibrating clit sucker toy may just be the one for you!
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